Chi Alfero: It likely has something to do with the provocative clothing and make up you wear at the gym. When a gal does everything she can to DRAW the eye, she'll get the eye.
Marcellus Exler: You are married sweetie.What "thoughts" are you looking for?Divorce your husband and go play the field if that is your desire.
Katheryn Skrobacki: Married women usually sleep with anyone other than their husbands .The reason you'll hear so many husbands complain that they aren't getting enough sex is that the wives are rubbed raw by their " friends " from the gym .
Wilmer Skidmore: you can beat them for trying. Tell them thank you , but you are married.WHY!!! would you add them to facebook. There is no reason to do this.
Blair Abdi: You shouldn't even be considering this, and you considering it is bad and end of itself. You need to stop going to the gym without your husband there. Or you need to switch gyms to a more respectful one. Also, the way you dress! may have something to do with it. If you don't dress modestly, then guys are going to think that you want to be available. But if you dress classy and cover yourself up, people are probably not going to hit on you.One thing is for sure:If you cheat, it'll ruin your marriage.Either A) hubby will find out and leave you, or B) you'll feel such intense guilt- and paranoia- that you'll never be able to be happy again. So don't cheat. It's not worth it.And it obviously goes without saying, but people do not hit on married women because they want to marry them or commit to them. They hit on them because they want to get some booty on the side, one time booty call...Show more
Colby Millberg: You should just be flattered. Let the boys have their fantasy, lol
Sharri Scalley: Some guys (and gals) simply don't care about marital status. They go after anything they see that they think they want. No morals, no conscience. Surely a person in their 40s is already well aware of! this, because their peers were behaving that way when they we! re in their 20s and on up.If you're at the gym to workout, then do that. Make it clear you're not there to flirt or hookup. If they want to friend you to share fitness info, fine. Otherwise, they're barking up the wrong tree, so to speak.I didn't think anyone could make it to middle age these days and still be so naive....Show more
Rufus Plough: "married" women do not give phone numbers to men or add strange dudes on facebook. so take a hint
Kimberlee Bowdish: They figure nothing is lost by trying.Outwardly, tell them politely and firmly that you are married. Then turn away and ignore them.Inwardly, be FLATTERED that they find you attractive. Twenty, thirty years from now, you will be invisible to men and WISH a guy found you attractive. Enjoy it while it lasts. But do nothing about it outwardly.What gives?It is the difference between men and women.The pleasure center of men is turned on by dopamine, which is released when they take action. This is why men l! ike sports so much. When it comes to interacting with women, "action" is sex.For women, it is serotonin, which is released when talking and bonding.But men, horny just about 2/8 (especially when in their teens and 20's), mistakenly think woman are the same as men. That women are walking around just wishing they could get sex from a guy. The stupid ones never DO figure out that women are NOT the same as men.To be fair, women make the same mistake as men .. they think that the guy is looking for love when all he wants is the sex. Not to say that men never want a partner .. but that for men, love IS sex. Not bonding....Show more
Sherita Gallati: You are obviously sending out the wrong signals.1) You married..why add them to your FB account?2) Quit making eye contact with them.3)Quit being so congenial....you don't need to be rude but when they approach just say NO...AGAIN ..WHY ARE YOU EVEN LETTING THEM ACCESS YOUR ACCOUNT..CLOSE IT ..YOUR M A R R I E D 4) Women wear! a certain look when they don't want to be bothered...Wear that look5) ! IF you are wearing clothes that draw attention to your figure? STOP6) These guys are looking only to get laid...keep that in mind and 7) oh by the way...have you told your husband about all the men you are adding to your account...I'll bet not8) Stop going to the gym...Show more
Sol Allphin: So you give your contact info to random guys at the gym and then you can't understand why they pursue you? Yeah....ok.
Brian Freedland: Ok this may come has a surprise but guys who go to gyms eye up the females in the gym has a matter of course, just look around yourself and see the ladies in their work out gear, some are so flimsy clingy over the natural curves that ladies have that its impossible to turn an eye away from the delicious sights.. hahahah You ladies are are seen has fair game, after all you might just be there looking for a quicky , or more, its not unknown for both men and women to become friends in gyms which can often lead to bed..... the o! ld saying if you don't ask you won't get seems to ring true.. the thing is all you really have to do is to say NO...when they ask for your number or name, giving details could be construed that you might be interested in something more than working out in the gym....Show more
Rosalva Steinmann: If your there by yourself and you are good looking then you will get hit on.
Porfirio Cahall: You're simply a c*ck tease......this is all about getting your ego stroked.
Gregg Hagge: Well by adding men who try to hit on you on your Facebook seems kinda of like leading them in the wrong direction.There are unfortunately lots of married people that cheat and by you adding them it sends the wrong message... What does your husband think of all this?Ask yourself this question. If the role was reversed and he was adding all kinds of women who were hitting on him at work or at the gym.. Or from a supermarket would you be ok with that? I think it's great that you still ! get hit on it means you still got it!...Show more
Blair Abdi: Mar! ried women are indeed easy. Most are actually looking for some kind of validation. They encourage flirtation and often initiate illicit affairs. A married woman is the absolute best date you can have. She's not going to insist on a commitment, she's only available for a short time, so she's not going to monopolize your time. In your case, you're probably physically attractive, too! Being friendly a congenial you would be a wonderful person to have an affair with! Being married, you probably know how to please a man, and are not prudish. An ideal person to date!!!...Show more
Monty Sieloff: i think it's incredibly tacky that you would give out your facebook page address to some strange man. if you want an honest opinion. you are one of those women who want all the attention, you crave it. but yes, you are married. how many strange women have you added to your facebook page? if you are sending mixed signals to men, they often take that as you are available - even if yo! u're wearing a ring. At 40 something, surely you are aware of this and just exploiting it to serve your own need for attention from younger men. pathetic....Show more
Nelly Kikuchi: You must be hot. Wedding rings don't bother them.
Gene Debell: Because some say yes. And will go out.
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